You need to either go to settings and change your privacy to 'public' or start hittin the ♥️ under the vids that you'd like to keep for further or repeat viewings and ones you think represent what you're into and about. Doing that will increase the number of people into the same or similar sexual interests, AND will increase the likelihood of people accepting an invite from you. Welcome to the hamster, there's a whole lot of like-minded people